Online dating is a fast-paced game. Only the fastest guys survive. At least many people think this way. But how quickly you send an email to a woman you want is not the only thing you should consider if you want to land a date with her. Women want an email from a guy whosounds approachable and inviting. They want to communicate with someone who is easy to talk to. How would you do this with an email?
An email sounds more personal if a guy would not just introduce himself but try to give a good picture of what he is on about. Tell the woman what you are, what you want, and even what you might be doing at the time you wrote that email. You would surely sound more like a friend and she would be more likely to entertain you.
Show some interest in what she wants. Ask her what she likes to do and the things that she is mainly concerned about. Speak to hear directly and not just as one of the many girls that you are sending email to. This would show that you are really interested in her.
Make comments about her profile to show that you have really read it and did not just look at her picture. By doing this you would make her feel special because she would see the effort you exerted just to get to know her better.
Just keep it short. She wants an email, not a novel. It would be difficult to keep her attention if you send a long first email. This may not be a bad idea, but only if you have already exchanged emails more than once. You should only do this if the occasion really calls for it, like
if she requested you to do it.You have to tell her exactly what you are looking for. Do you want a long-term commitment or just one date? Make it clear from the very beginning to avoid misunderstanding.
The most important thing is just to be yourself. Don't be afraid to be who you are (what will she say if I tell her I'm like this?). Just be yourself and project it with attitude in your email. Show her what's so unique about you and why she has to spend her time with you. You never
know, you might find that you both share the same thing that you thought was so weird about you.
