Are you receiving a lot of rejectons from women in online dating? Then these don'ts of online dating will surely help you get back on the right track.
Don't start off by telling people what you do not like. This would sound too negative. Women want to see a little ray of sunshine and humor. Talk about what you like and what you hope to find. A witty profile would also look good and will surely make some women smile.
Before sending an email to your prospect, be sure that you have read her profile thouroughly. This will increase your chances of getting a reply. Show the woman that you are interested in her, not only in her photo. Also, make sure that you got the spelling of the names of the women correclty. This would show them that you are really paying attention.
It's not a good idea to talk mostly about yourself when sending an email. Instead of focusing on yourself, shift the attention to her. That way, she would feel that you are really interested in her. But don't put the spotlight on her completeley. She would naturally be curious about you too.
If you want to send an email to other women, don't send identical emails. Make each email special and particular to the person whom you are sending it to. A more personal email is more likely to get the attention of women (and is more likely to get a reply).
Never tell lies just to make yourself sound more than what you really are. Just be yourself and women would appreciate this more.
Avoid obscenity when sending emails and pictures (unless women asked for it). This would more likely insult them than arouse them. Nothing is more attractive than a decent guy.
Don't be too aggressive. Women like guys who take action, but too much of this would scare them. Remember, this is an online dating and so women approach guys more cautiously because of so many things that they can't be sure of. Gain their trust first by being their friend.
These are just some of the no-no's of online dating. There could, of course, be a lot more depending upon what the situation calls for, but these are the most common mistakes that guys make in their desperate attempt to attract a woman and, hopefully, would not be repeated by others.
